Hey again.
So as we are gathering up awesome things to share with you, I thought it would be good to fill you in on a little bit of Mike’s background.
First. He prefers to be called Michael now. I’m his wife and he was Mike when we met and I have seen him almost everyday since we got married so I will always call him Mike. I believe we should be flexible with change when it comes to our spouses, but asking me to call him something else is asking too much. Lucky for me, I think he recognizes this and has never asked me to change what I call him. But you are welcome to call him Michael. Or Mike. I don’t think he really cares all that much.
Four. He’s a problem solver. For certain types of things. He’s not going to fix your doomed relationship or major medical diagnosis. Sorry. But someone might say “I wish there was something out there that does this thing.” Mike says that but then makes it. Then he makes it better. Then someone comes to him with another problem and he can’t help himself but think of 10 ways to fix that problem. It gives him a thrill. The more challenging and the more restrictions the better.
It makes me tired just thinking about it, but that’s one of the reasons I don’t do what he does. And to be straight with you, sometimes I have to tell him not to fix things. We are not the world’s best communicators but we have found that I need to overtly say, “I just want to complain about this. I don’t actually need this fixed.” There’s some relationship advice, for ya.
So I think I will leave it at 5 today. Hopefully that gives you a glimpse into who this guy is. You probably want to be his friend. I get it. I like him too.